Thursday, January 29, 2009

Updike's death poem

John Updike died last Tuesday. Apparently he was working on a poem about his death:

It came to me the other day:

Were I to die, no one would say,

'Oh, what a shame! So young, so full

Of promise - depths unplumbable!

Instead, a shrug and tearless eyes

Will greet my overdue demise;

The wide response will be, I know,

'I thought he died a while ago.'

For life's a shabby subterfuge,

And death is real, and dark, and huge.

The shock of it will register

Nowhere but where it will occur. 

10 comments:

Susan said...

It takes a secure man to write with humor about his own future death. I hope I live to be an old woman so I can have someone read this poem at my service. I love it.

jiva said...

I think the idea of people saying
"I thought he died a while ago" is a very real testament to the fact that you must have lived so long, people think you are dead already! I see it as a compliment for longevity. :)

Ruth said...

Susan, I was very interested that you said what you did. I was thinking the opposite, I wouldn't want it to be read it mine. But I would like to become more detached and accept that this is true for us all. The shock of our deaths will not register anywhere but where we are.

Ruth said...

Jiva, I know, and Updike wasn't all that old, just 76.

Susan said...

Well, I was kinda thinking if I lived to be, like, 103! And they're all wondering "Is she EVER going to croak?" hehe

Ruth said...

Haha.

Sandy said...

Very nice.

My dad wrote a poem too before he died, he wanted to be cremated and he wrote a poem about doing the two step across the grill...he had a macabe sense of humor.. and he loved country western dancing.

Thing said...

This is fucking awesome! Thank you!

Gwen Buchanan said...

I heard a great interview with Updike yesterday... it had been recorded 10 years ago... still pertinent... we are sorry he's gone...

dutchbaby said...

Thank you for sharing this poem. He was honest and self-deprecating to the end.